Is January a Good Month to Date?

You’ve heard it said that the onset of a new year is the catalyst for a new you. And this can fully apply to your romantic life. With an increased pool of singles, resolutions and the idea of a fresh start in the air, January is a good month to date. In this article, we unpack all the reasons you should be on the lookout for love right now.

Cuffing season

We’re well into “cuffing season” as the calendar turns a page, so it’s time to get proactive in your search. It encompasses the period from October 1st to February 14th and is known to be the prime time to match with a mate in the northern hemisphere. As winter unfolds, we naturally want to get all hygge and cuddle up with a significant other on the long dark nights. And as we yearn to have that person in place by Valentine’s Day, we try hard to make it happen during cuffing season.

What month do most relationships start?

The start of cuffing season isn’t necessarily the busiest period for coupling up, given we are often too occupied with Christmas preparations and nights out. Add to this that many people begin winter trying to stick it out with a boyfriend or girlfriend, choosing to remain together rather than cause a rift and awkwardness right before yuletide; especially if there are joint family gatherings planned. But if you’re not happy with your mate and you make it this far, come January 1st when the partying is over, the goodwill generally runs out and it’s time to move on. And it’s not just the newly single who are on the lookout. Finding love is commonly cited as the most popular new year’s resolution, particularly among those who’ve been flying solo for a while already.

Dating Sunday

This is the month in which online dating sites see the biggest uptake in membership, as newly single people resolve to change their dating fortunes. So much so, that the first Sunday after the new year is now dubbed “Dating Sunday”. One app has forecasted as much as a 65% increase in new singles projected to join their platform in the first 31 days of 2023. And those kinds of stats are seen across the industry. Meanwhile, December is being dubbed as “dump month” — certainly a way for some to wriggle out of having to buy their other half a pressie!

Feelgood January vibes

Of course it’s not all about optimising your timing in terms of how many singles are searching at the same time of year. Taking a more holistic approach, dating is a great way to give your well-being a boost. Going on some dates and being proactive about finding a mate is a great way to feel empowered and beat the January blues. But it’s important to choose a method that energises you, and works with your personality style. Speed dating is perfect for those seeking a reason to get out and about, at a time of year that can go a bit flat as far as socialising goes. It’s a great excuse to get dressed up!

Live your best life while everyone else is hibernating

As the sparkle of the holiday period begins to fade, the next few weeks don’t have to be all about hitting the gym, juicing and browsing travel websites (although you can do all of those things too). January can be the most exhilerating month of the year if you approach it with a positive attitude. Your friends may be reluctant to brave the cold, but you can wrap up warm, get out there are discover some of the delights to be enjoyed on winter dates with local singletons. A walk on a frosty, blue sky day costs nothing, but allows you to connect with nature — and your date.

Have you made a new year’s resolution to find love? If so, you’re not alone. Come along to a speed dating night near you and meet other people who are doing the same. We have events happening across the UK in January and beyond. So, who knows, by Valentine’s Day your fortunes could have changed completely.

Related Questions

What time of year do most relationships end?
Many relationships begin in the new year, partly because previous ones often end after the holidays, or just before (one of the reasons you’ll find an influx of singles back on the scene around now). This is largely due to the pressures of the festive season adding an extra strain to couples who were already questioning their partnership.

What is dry dating?
We’re all familiar with dry January, but what about dry dating?! The idea is basically the same, except that instead of giving up booze for the first month of the year, you refrain from alcoholic libations when on dates. It doesn’t have to be forever, but it can help avoid blunders and drunken mistakes if you’re prone to them.

When is the right time to start dating after a breakup?
When you feel ready and you think you are doing it for the right reasons i.e. not to get back at your ex, or as a rebound. The timescale will depend on how sudden the breakup was, how serious you were and how you felt about the other person in the months leading up to the split. If you’re still not sure, ask friends and family to give you some feedback on whether they think you’re ready to move on yet.