How to Meet Other LGBTQ+ Singles in Your Area

Finding like-minded individuals and potential partners within the LGBTQ+ community is affirming and exciting. However, it can sometimes be a challenge to meet new people, especially if you're unsure where to begin. In this article, we’ll be giving our insights and suggestions on how to meet other LGBTQ+ singles in your area, foster meaningful relationships and build a supportive community.

LGBTQ+ social groups

Seek out local LGBTQ+ special interest groups in your area. These will host social events, support groups and gatherings where you can meet like-minded individuals, some of whom will be single. Engaging with these groups not only offers opportunities to meet new friends but may also lead to potential romantic connections.

Sports clubs

A perfect example of such a social group, is a sports club. Every town and city will have a group or club geared to the gay community. Attending regularly will not only enable you to build connections, but you’ll improve your sports skill of choice and get fitter. So whether it's joining a queer-friendly soccer team, a queer book club, or an LGBTQ+ hiking group, participating in high-energy activities you enjoy while meeting new people will foster both friendships and potential romantic relationships.

Meeting people online

In the digital age, dating apps and websites specifically tailored to the LGBTQ+ community offer an excellent platform to meet other singles. Popular apps such as Grindr, HER and Scruff provide a space where you can connect with individuals who share your identity. Utilise these platforms by creating an engaging profile, being clear about your preferences and proactively engaging in conversations with potential matches. But, don’t worry if dating apps are not working for you. They are just one of many options and there are plenty of face-to-face opportunities at your disposal.

LGBTQ+ events near me

The LGBTQ+ nightlife scene is thriving in many of the UK's cities and towns. And they provide vibrant and inclusive spaces to mingle with other singles. Research LGBTQ+-friendly bars, clubs and lounges in your area and check their event calendars for themed nights, drag shows, or live performances. If there isn’t much happening near you — perhaps you live in a more rural or suburban area — consider a weekend break somewhere like Manchester, Brighton, Glasgow, or Cardiff.

LGBTQ+ Singles Nights

These are events held purely for singles to mix and match. Check out listings near you to find out what’s happening and when, as you’ll likely need to book a ticket. Slow Dating recently launched our very own events, which include entertainment, games and an optional speed dating segment. So we heartily recommend you come along to one of our dedicated LGBTQ+ Singles Nights.

Volunteer at Pride

Supporting LGBTQ+ causes through volunteer work not only contributes to the community but also enables you to meet like-minded individuals who are passionate about making a difference. You could become a Pride Angel (an initiative we at Slow Dating have partnered with), or help out in some other way during the festivities at your nearest Pride event. This is ideal if you’d rather have a role than be a bystander and it gives you a great excuse to chat with hundreds of attendees and soak up the carnival atmosphere.

Support Groups and workshops

Alternatively, you could seek out LGBTQ+ support groups or workshops that focus on personal growth, self-acceptance, and empowerment. These spaces provide opportunities to meet individuals who are on similar journeys and may have shared experiences. Engaging in discussions and participating in activities within these groups can lead to connections based on mutual understanding and support.

Now it’s time to get out there and meet other queer singles in your area. Remember to approach each interaction with authenticity, openness and respect. And above all, to have fun.

Related Questions

How do introverts meet new people?
Instead of diving into large social events, consider starting with smaller group settings (these tend to be less overwhelming and allow for more meaningful conversations); intimate gatherings with close friends, joining a small class or workshop or even inviting a few colleagues or acquaintances for a casual get-together.

Is it normal to struggle to find love as a queer person?
Yes. It is very normal for people of any gender and sexual orientation to struggle in finding love. Remember that everyone's journey is unique; for some, it happens easily, while others may face more obstacles along the way. The dating landscape can be influenced by societal expectations of dating, personal insecurities, past experiences and a range of other factors that can make it difficult to connect with a compatible partner. Trust it will happen when the time is right.

Is it ever too late to find love?
Love is not restricted by age or chronology. Life circumstances and priorities differ from person to person and we each embark on romantic journeys at different points. Some individuals may focus on personal or professional pursuits earlier on and then find love later, while others may have experienced relationships earlier but find love again after a breakup or loss. Moreover, perspectives and desires evolve over time. It's never too late to learn about oneself, develop new connections and open up to the possibility of love.