Summer Dating Dos and Don’ts

Warm weather and longer days are here, making it easier to plan exciting activities and enjoy the great outdoors at a minimal cost. Here are some summer dating dos and don’ts that will help you make the most of the season and find love in the process.

Early stages of dating dos and don’ts

Just started seeing someone, or taking your first ever steps into the world of dating? These are our tips if you’re in the early stages of dating this summer. Above all, take things at your own pace if you’re just starting out, particularly if you’ve never dated before, are still processing grief, or you’ve had a difficult breakup. Whatever the season, remember that you’re in the driving seat of your love life.

DO try new things

Summer is a great time to try new things and explore new places. And dating is the ideal vehicle to do it. In the early stages, you have no guarantees as to whether things will work out. Using the opportunity to do some different activities ensures nothing is lost, however things pan out with the date. So book that new restaurant you’ve fancied for ages, go to the gig you’ve been thinking about, hire the paddleboards and sign up for that zip-line course, knowing you have someone to do it with. Summer socialising with friends and colleagues can also be a great way to get some intros to suitable singles. So do take that party or after-work drinks invite.

Cheap summer date ideas

Many of us are feeling the squeeze this year. But the good news is that summer is by far the cheapest time of year to socialise and date. Dining can go outdoors to a community space, or you can make a magical den in your garden with a few fairy lights. And you can find low-budget date options throughout the year if you’re creative about it. Look out for comps to events, open mic nights or free gigs.

DO get outdoors

Summer is the perfect time to enjoy nature and the green and blue spaces near you. Being outside is good for your mental and physical health and you can save loads by packing a picnic, taking a hike, or going for a sea swim. If this is your first date, stick to public and well-frequented spots, or join an organised activity.

But DO have a wet weather backup plan

Summer weather can be unpredictable, so it’s important to be prepared for any situation. Always check the weather forecast before your date and plan accordingly. If rain is in the forecast, have a backup plan that includes indoor activities. Or have a discussion about whether you’re both comfortable with a gentle soaking.

DON’T drink too much and DO take water with you

This is an especially important consideration on hot days when alcohol can have a stronger effect on your system. If you’re dehydrated in the heat you may also end up drinking more than you should in an attempt to dehydrate. Instead, be sure to have a bottle of water on hand. While it’s totally fine to have a few bevvies on your summer date, it’s wise to keep in mind that overconsumption can impair your judgment and lead to poor decision-making. If you do choose to drink, make sure to do so in moderation and always have a plan for getting home safely.

What to wear on a summer date

Deciding what to wear can consitute the biggest dilemma for your date. And summer brings its own particular challenges (although it’s also usually the best time for dressing to impress). Here are our tips for summer date clothing…

DON’T overdress

While you might want to dress up for your summer date, it’s important to keep in mind that the weather can be quite hot and humid. Avoid wearing heavy or bulky clothing that will make you uncomfortable. Instead, opt for light and breathable fabrics that will keep you cool and comfortable and layers to cover you for cooler evenings. It’s also important to choose the right footwear for your summer date. If you’ll be walking, wear comfortable shoes that are suitable for the terrain. And if you’re dead set on heels, make a plan upfront that won’t involve a lot of clambering about.

But DO take a light jacket or raincoat

Remember that you’re in the UK where the weather can turn on a pinhead. To avoid a wet T-shirt situation, always carry a rain jacket to be on the safe side, unless we’re in the middle of a guaranteed storm-free heatwave.

Keep these summer dating dos and don’ts in mind to create some unforgettable memories with a potentially special someone. It’s the season of fun and adventure, when everyone is more relaxed. So seize the day and make it one to remember. And if you’ve yet to kick off your journey in love, why not give speed dating a go this summer?

Related Questions

Do summer relationships last?
The experiences and memories shared during the summer can help build a deep connection and understanding between two people. If both individuals are willing to put in the effort to maintain the relationship after the season ends, a relationship that began in summer can definitely last.

Why do couples break up in summer?
Holidays can push any underlying relationship issues to a head, as couples spend time together 24/7. An increase in parties and events provides opportunities to mingle and possibly reevaluate whether an individual would prefer a different partner. And people often feel freer and more adventurous at this time of year, which has its pros and cons.

Why summer romances are so intense?
Summer relationships can be extra passionate, fuelled by the excitement and freedom of the season. Depending on where you are in the country, you may be going to some incredible festivals, watching sunsets on the beach, or picnicking on a riverside. People are more likely to let their guard down and take risks in these settings, which can lead to some intense and magical experiences.